The Ancient Gesture of the Holy Kiss Hidden in Today’s Mass
The Ancient Gesture of the Holy Kiss Hidden in Today’s Mass Long time ago at church, at the time the priest said, “Offer one another the sign of peace,” I actually saw some man kiss another man on the cheek, a child on the forehead, and a lady on the hand. I’m assuming they were not related. Recently, I read how this trend continues, as a blogger wrote about a similar situation. That memory stayed with me, not because it was unusual, but because it felt ancient — like I had accidentally witnessed something older than the parish itself. At the time, I didn’t fully understand what I was seeing. It looked like a simple gesture of goodwill, maybe even a cultural flourish. Only later did I realize I had seen a living remnant of a tradition that reaches back to the world of Jesus and even before. In the ancient Mediterranean world, a kiss was not romantic but relational. It was a sign of respect, kinship, and peace. Men greeted men with a kiss on the cheek. Children were kissed on the forehe...